You think you know everything about sex, but in fact you don't. You have no idea about sex, don't you? As I quoted from Nymphomaniac (2013), "Do you think you know everything about sex? The secret ingredient to sex... is love."
Fromm once said that love is the answer to the problem of human existence, the only answer that is satisfactory and sane. So, How you practice sex with your partner depends on your approach and understanding of the existential problems of your life and, at the same time, determines the wholeness you will experience as a human being.
As I know, sex is an expression and a possibility of celebrating love. Therefore, sex requires knowledge and effort. As you celebrate the most important day in your life, sex also need a perfect music. You can play it while trying to tease your lover, cuddling, talking in bed, stroking your lover's arm, and hip-hugging your lover. Definitely, you need a soundtrack for those exertions.
As I know, sex is an expression and a possibility of celebrating love. Therefore, sex requires knowledge and effort. As you celebrate the most important day in your life, sex also need a perfect music. You can play it while trying to tease your lover, cuddling, talking in bed, stroking your lover's arm, and hip-hugging your lover. Definitely, you need a soundtrack for those exertions.
Take it slow, do not be in a rush. Go to dinner first, teased each other the whole time, and play some music. And there are some records, from early nineties to two-thousands, that you can put on during a fun time with your lover.
1. I Love You by Saigon Kick
2. Miss You in a Heartbeat by Def Leppard
3. Glory Box by Portishead
4. Medicine by The 1975
5. From Eden by Hozier
6. Tear That falls by The Aggrolites
7. Some Other Place by Arcade Fire
8. My Favourite Book by Stars
9. Kiss of Life by Sade
10. Bloom by The Paper Kites
11. I'll Go Crazy by Bluejuice
12. Do You Mind? by The XX
13. Closer by Nine Inch Nails
14. Fade Into You by Mazzy Stars
16. Linger by The Cranberries
17. Video Game by Lana del Rey
18. Crazy by Aerosmith
19. Blood Bank by Bon Iver
20. Turn Me On by Norah Jones